Comfortable in my own skin at 19, especially when it breaks the routine. Meeting up now and then when the mood is right, gladly.

Aleksandra, 39. Caught up in the everyday, I like to treat myself when I can. For me it's the spark and the attraction that count, the rest follows.

I live in East Malling and I can't stand pretence. I'm after an encounter with no taboos, happy to be tempted.

Pretty spontaneous and far from timid, 39, in Wadhurst. A discreet affair, outside the routine, is exactly what I'm after. So I'm really not one to chase complications.

Shona, 27, in Green Street Green. Between work and going out, I like to make a bit of time for myself. I like the idea of meeting up now and then, when the mood takes us.

I live in East Grinstead and I can't stand pretence. For me it's the chemistry, physical too that count, and the rest comes on its own.

Reserved on the surface in Hextable, but a good deal freer once I'm comfortable. I'm after a flirty encounter, with a real spark and zero pressure.

I'm Bethany, 34, in Caterham. I prefer it straight and no fuss. I just fancy a break from the routine, for two.

Reserved on the surface in Bletchingley, but a good deal freer once I'm comfortable. I'd rather keep things free: some fun, with no commitment.

Comfortable in my own skin at 19, especially when it breaks the routine. A regular arrangement, no fuss, would be ideal.

Emily, 26, in Uckfield. Between work and going out, I like to make a bit of time for myself. I'd rather find a regular thing, easy going and discreet.

I'm Abigail, 36, in Merstham. I prefer it straight and no fuss. I'm after an encounter with no taboos, happy to be tempted.

Reserved on the surface in Pound Hill, but a good deal freer once I'm comfortable. I'm after someone open and playful, who owns what they want.

Discreet by nature in Burlow, but not the least bit prudish. I fancy a discreet affair, away from the everyday. Discretion matters to me.

Reserved on the surface in Hoo, but a good deal freer once I'm comfortable. I'm after something playful, and easy going.

Anjali here, 20. I prefer it straight and no games. For me it's the chemistry, physical too that count, and the rest comes on its own.